Friday, April 3, 2009

Awkward moment.

So, after that last email, Mr. Nice texted me and asked when would be a good time to call me so he could "run a couple things by me." I assume he means stuff about my allowance. Unfortunately this week was crazy for me - working 9 hour days, plus all the other stuff I do. I told him not until at least Wednesday. I'm figuring we're going to see each other Friday (today) if at all.

Days pass. Allowance doesn't show up in my account. I'm not hurting for it, but it sure would make things easier (the catchphrase of the sugar baby, amirite?) We exchange a couple of pleasant texts about his travel for this week.

Then yesterday, he texts me asking if we can meet Monday or Tuesday of next week. I say sure, and he can let me know which day is best for him since my work schedule is so flexible.

Now I'm wondering what to do about my monthly allowance. He seemed quite ready to "get it out of the way" in his last few emails - he knows it's something I don't like talking about. I have a feeling he's going to want to talk about it on our next date....ugh. I'm so passive-aggressive, I would much rather text/email about it. It's not that I'm scared he's not good for it - I've seen the bills inside his wallet, I've seen his nicely-tailored suits, and he's given me some excellent financial advice about the difference between a 401k and a Roth IRA. He's a good guy, and he's proved himself very trustworthy over the last 3 dates. I just wish it were done and out of the way.

Well in any case, there will definitely not be any intimacy on this next date the way I was planning. Until I see some serious sugar from him, he's not going to be shoplifting any pootie. Maybe he can take me shopping this time instead- I might be able to nab that oval-charm Tiffany's bracelet I've been worshipping from afar. I like him, but I'm not interested in getting freaky until he's made me comfortable.

Until next week dear readers!

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