Phew, as anonymous said in her comment on my last update, I was preparing myself for the worst. I've heard many tales of sugar daddies, even qualified and nice guys, suddenly disappearing. I was getting ready, both financially and emotionally, to be ignored.
Didn't get a response back from my confrontational email. Today at around 4:30 PM Mr. Nice texts me: "Hi how does Thursday work for you? My schedule is too full to do any earlier."
I text back: "Thursday could work. Did you get my email?"
He texts: "Yes but you didn't say how much you wanted"
Eugh. We already had this convo on our second meeting. Must we rehash it?
I text: "On my SA profile I had it as 2k. Is that ok for you?"
Loooooooooooooong pause.
He texts back: "That could work as long as you want to be more than friends."
Huh. Well, this is the moment of truth. I know there are no free rides, and that there are very few sugar daddies out there who will spend 2000+ each month on a celibate relationship. I'm not incredibly attracted to this guy, but at the same time, he's not horrendous looking. Can I tolerate, or maybe even learn to enjoy, sex with a paunchy white man who is 24 years my senior? Like I said before, I've faked my share of orgasms, and I don't mind doing it again (at least, until I get used to having sex with him enough that I can start to enjoy it) but I've never had an older lover. I'm used to slender young guys who have constant, easy erections and who like to go multiple times. I consider myself sexually liberated, but I don't know how well I'll emotionally handle this.
BUT....I need the money, at least for the next couple of months. While I'm traveling next month, I won't be working, but I'll still need to pay the next months rent and bills. So, maybe what I need is a short-term arrangement.
So, I'm texting him back tonight. "I do, as long as you're ok with using a condom."
Ok, we'll see what comes back.
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Yay! congrats!
Well though I do agree that he should want to be more than friends, I don't think it was very elegant of him to introduce the matter in light of the financial aspect of the relationship. Especially after letting the issue lag for so long.
I can sense that you felt it too. Hopefully, that is not an indicator of his permanent behavior. I don't think it will be, I think most guys on SA have met a fair amount of girls who expect to get away with sole companionship and he just wanted to be reassured before committing to sustained financial support.
As for the sex, I hope you will be pleasantly surprised, as I was, to find out that these guys are effing hot in bed. When I'm not with my SD all I can think of is getting my hands on him - or his hands on me :)
Just relax, have fun, let yourself be turned on, and when you are, make sure you let him know, he'll be crazy about you.
Much love, keep the blog up
Kat
Hmm yes I must agree with Kat, I was very pleasantly surprised when I had sex with an older gentleman. They seem to know their way around a female's body much better and are more into pleasing you than just having sex in general. Hopefully all will turn out well.
omg...finally, im reading someone who is going through the same things i was...i thought i was the only one mentioning the sex issue and the thought process behind making that decision...thanx sooo much...but yeah, in order to get the big $$, there is going to be sex involved...its not as emotionally taxing as i thought it would be (thank goodness), so it makes the journey that much easier to endure and it truly shows if were cut out for this....keep posting, ill keep reading :)
thx n good luck
I've mostly been with older man and I will never EVER go back to guys my age, they have no idea what they're doing in bed. Older men are so much more experienced!
I'm almost on the same boat as you. Cept I kinda want to try older guys... my potential SD sounds a lot like yours... cept my allowance isn't as much, lol... maybe with time...
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