The Retin A is awesome. I'm only on my third day but my skin is so much smoother and clearer. Plus I haven't had any peeling/flaking/redness at all yet, which I've been very thankful for.
A very good text came back from Mr. Nice last night in response to the make-or-break condom question: "Yes, of course. That's no problem."
I was extremely relieved. So I texted back: "Well in that case, I'm ok if you're ok."
Mr. Nice: "Then it sounds like we r both ok haha sorry if I'm making this awkward."
So we text back and forth a bit more and he suggests we meet Thursday at 1 pm for lunch, and mentions (again) that we can go shopping. He suggested this last time but I was pressed for time and wasn't sure how I was going to shop without it being boring for him, so we went straight to the movie, but I have a feeling he'd really like to take me shopping. This time I replied "Thanks, that might be fun."
So it looks like dining, shopping, and a first chance at intimacy on Thursday afternoon. There's a Victoria's Secret near where we'll be seeing each other - that seems like a place where I could easily spend a few minutes and a few hundred dollars. plus I could find something to put on a little later that day that would probably up my confidence a few points.
However, I haven't seen the money come into my account yet. Is it OK to sleep with him for 200 dollars plus a few hundred in shopping (equal to approximately 1/4 of my monthly allowance)? Or should I hold out until I see the full allowance in my account?
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- Sugar Kitten
- East coast girl with west coast politics, looking for a steady SD who can afford 2000 a month allowance in exchange for the honor of my companionship.
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3 comments:
if i were u, id wait until i see the whole amount, because its easy for him 2 give u the little $$ and once u guys go all the way, something come up and the whole amount never makes it to you, to the point where he thinks its ok to continue to give u the same small amount...trust me...im there right now...for less than that, but i need the $$ so until another sd comes along, i find myself having to endure this garbage for a small tiny amount...dont make my mistake..:)
I would def wait until *I* got what was agreed upon. He shouldn't get his end of the deal, without you getting yours.
Also, how he handles this the 1st time around can serve as a cursor as to how this situation may work out down the line. Keep us posted!
XOXO
JC
Hold out for sure.
I slept with my SD the first time I met him, before he gave me anything. I had traveled to meet him and he had handled all my arrangements very gracefully, and I was just very much attracted to him. Before I left he gave me 4K to show that he was trustworthy and I've never had grounds for complaints since.
I do feel it is different if you've met him a couple of times AND you live in the same area, meaning you don't have commitments as long as 2-3 days and he can just disappear anytime he likes.
Don't let him play you, he's brought up the subject many times, and should have made that transfer a while ago already!
Kat
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