I'm officially changing J's nickname to Mr. Nice...reasons to be disseminated here.
Ok, so, Wednesday afternoon I met with Mr. Nice for coffee at a Starbucks. We spoke for about an hour about various things: his divorce, his kids, his work and travel, my work, my school, our hobbies. He was incredibly nice - in fact, he was beyond nice, he was almost desperately pleasant. Boston, in retrospect, now seems stand-offish and arrogant. Our convo was easy and fun - I felt at ease with him immediately.
Mr. Nice wanted to go to lunch with me, but that was a little too quick for me. I've only just started my sugar career, but I've already got a set routine with potential sugar daddies: coffee, then lunch/dinner, and at that second meal I feel it's just about the right time to decide if it's time to go forward with an arrangement.
Next week he's going to Vegas with some friends for a long weekend (he says occasional gambling is his main vice), but he wants to have lunch with me. He was very no-pressure, which I liked a lot. He just wants something light and friendly while he goes through his divorce. He seemed like he was really desperate for companionship. Yeah, I'll be seeing him again.
It's so strange - Mr. Nice makes A LOT of money (his bracket is 500 thousand to a million a year) - a lot more than Boston. But he was so much more laid-back, just an easy-going and normal guy. Isn't that strange? You'd think the more money someone makes, the more driven and insufferable that person would be. You'd also think that to make that much money, the person would have to be really aggressive. But Mr. Nice was the opposite of those things. Which is pretty cool. I'm going to try to see him again next Tuesday, during which we will discuss arrangement terms. I'll let you guys know.
To everyone who's commenting on my blog: thank you for your support! It's the comments that make me want to keep writing. Here's hoping all you sugar babes find a sweet daddy very soon.
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3 comments:
Hey hun,
I have found that a lot of times people realise you have you to be nice to everyone on the way up as you will be passing them on the way down if anything goes wrong. X has great manners and thankfully isnt one of those men who thinks that by being rude to a waitress he will seem like a better person
Mr Nice sounds lovely hun, can wait to hear about your lunch date
x
after reading this blog, it makes me feel soo much better...i had a potential, and we were supposed 2 meet 4 coffee, no pressure, but he kept throwing $$ @ me hinting he wanted more but it seemed too quick 4 me, so when i made it known that this was just coffee, he flaked n i havent heard from him since...at least i know i did the right thing...THX :)
so i was just reading this blog again (btw, its destinationsugarbaby) and i know i commented before, but i just had 2 re-read it 2 get a feel of the pace i should be moving @ (i.e., coffee first, then dinner, then whatever 2 make sure its right)...so overall...thx 4 the blog...lol
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